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Mixing a young Russian woman and older western men can be a volatile mixture, to say the least. It would seem obvious that if a young Russian woman was willing to consider having a romantic or marital relationship with an older western man, her motives would not be the best. On occasion, though, that is not the case. How can you tell the difference?

If you are an older man, the first things you should think about are your own motivations for wanting a young woman, Russian or otherwise. If your motives are primarily sexual, you are probably headed for a world of grief. You may get what you want, but the emotional and financial costs will be very high. If you are unscrupulous and want to take advantage of a girl, she is in a position to be more unscrupulous. If you believe Russian women desire older men for casual liaisons, you are in for a big surprise.

Or you may be an older man who is more interested in a long term, mutually caring relationship with a Russian woman and her age is only a secondary consideration. In that case, you may find that, within reason, a younger woman may genuinely prefer the company of older men.

Most women, like most men, are seeking fidelity in their relationships. Some women have just grown weary of dating young men who are irresponsible and unfaithful. These women may have developed a preference for older men.

An older man’s attractiveness to young women often lies in his ability to offer them a higher degree of financial stability than young men can. This does not necessarily equate with their being “gold diggers” looking for a “sugar daddy” to take care of them. If they are sincere and emotionally mature, they may understand that any relationship involves mutual duties and responsibilities, including marital fidelity.

Romantic love as the foundation for a lasting relationship is often over-rated, especially by we Westerners. Historically and in many cultures even today, marriages are arranged by families. That sounds cold to our ears, but this is not necessarily the case. Love is something that grows over time, while falling in love often fades and ends in disaster.

A young Russian woman and older western men will look for each other in online dating and introduction services. Choose the service you use with care. If it is a site that mostly features young, attractive Russian women who entice men with provocative clothes and profile descriptions, look elsewhere. If the site has a large database of subscribers of all ages and lifestyles, that is where you should look. Good luck!

Mark De Schutter is the owner of a Russian dating service called “Charming Russian Brides”. This is an internet dating service for men who would like to meet Russian women who are interested about marriage to foreign men.